Sunday, December 18, 2005

"He's got so much inside him. He really does. I just wish he wouldn't tell me to shut up all the time." Yeah, that's a problem. Try not to ignore it. I know "he's got so many other great qualities." That's why you fell in love with him in the first place. I know you wouldn't fall in love with an asshole. But here's the trick: Forget about him and his good qualities. Even foregt about his bad ones. Forget about all his excuses and what he promises. Ask yourself one question only: Is he making you HAPPY? People are complicated. they are a mixed bag of lovable and dysfunctional qualities. That's why they are so darn confusing. That's why trying to figure them out is a waste of time. Is he making you happy? I don't mean some of the time, on rare occasions, not that often, "but the good still outweighs the bad." Does he make it clear in his actions every day that your happiness is important to him? If the answer is no, cut him loose and go find a man with a higher "good count."

From "he's not that into you" by: Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo

12 comments:

EMARAT JABAL SHAMMAR said...

E7MM.. E7MMM!!!!

HELLO..... HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

I'M LOST. I WAS SURFING BLOGS AND FOUND MYSELF HERE. I CANT GET OUT. STRETCH YOUR ARM OUT TOWARDS ME. LET ME HOLD YOUR HAND AND GUIDE ME OUT, I'M GOING INSANE STUCK INSIDE YOUR MONITOR SURROUNDED BY STORIES AND LETTERS AND SENTENCES AND AND AND AND. HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!

HRH KING AL RASHID.

ordinary girl said...

so sorry hearing about your troubles... I did not mean to keep you here but hopefully you already found your way out because I really cannot help you leaving, I am stuck here myself :p

EMARAT JABAL SHAMMAR said...

WELL I GUESS WE ARE STUCK HERE TOGETHER. JUST THE TWO OF US. LET ME TURN THE LIGHTS OFF. LIGHT A CANDLE. PUT SOFT ROMANTIC MUSIC ON. AND SERVE YOU DINNER.


HRH KING AL RASHID.

ordinary girl said...

well Mr. Royalty so sorry but I am not a Romantic person :p

SaudiEve said...

a threesome perhaps!

EMARAT JABAL SHAMMAR said...

COUNT ME IN. I CAN HANDLE TWO GIRLS. IT'S A TRIED AND TESTED EXPERIMENT AND I SUCCEEDED.

HRH KING AL RASHID.

ordinary girl said...

OK.. I guess i will just help you getting out as requisted :p

ordinary girl said...

You know what's funny guys, that actually none on you SAID a thing about what I wrote and if you've ever heared about this book?!!!
I guess His majesty being stuck was more important!! :p

Fo0f said...

LOL! Not what I expected to see as comments on that :S

I just came by to say that I really liked that guy and wull but the book.. Thanks for sharing girl ;)

ordinary girl said...

anytime foOf :) and really not comments I expected to see myself!!

SaudiEve said...

Looooool (3la the comments)
sory OG
;-)

ordinary girl said...

am soo lucky Eve to have such comments, am I not?! :p